01、男对女有意思，女对男也有意思

Men are interesting to women, and women are also interesting to men

02、谁主动不重要，重要的是双方。只要有人主动，另一个领情或回应

Who takes the initiative is not important, what matters is both parties. As long as someone takes the initiative, another appreciates or responds

03、然后开始稳定的约会，包括不限于吃饭(两个人)、看电影、出去游玩、一起咖啡、下午茶、打游戏、逛公园，总之就是玩。过程中，男的主动付费比例能到70-80%，就算及格，100%算是诚意十足。女方主动付男方阻止，也可以算成70-80%这个及格范围内。

Then start a stable date, including but not limited to eating (two people), watching movies, going out for fun, having coffee together, having afternoon tea, playing games, strolling in the park, in short, just having fun. During the process, if the proportion of men actively paying can reach 70-80%, even if they pass, 100% is considered sincere. If the woman voluntarily pays the man to stop, it can also be considered within the passing range of 70-80%.

04、小城市没事做，可以约会的时间多，一般能稳定约2个月，就需要推动表白。大城市大家时间少，时间可以拉长到3-4个月。饭起码一起吃顿以上，就可以表白了。女人只能提示，表白要男人来。

In small cities, there is nothing to do and there is plenty of time for dating. Generally, it can last for about 2 months, so it is necessary to promote confession. In big cities, people have less time, which can be extended to 3-4 months. Having at least one meal together is enough to confess one&39、;s feelings. Women can only remind men to confess their feelings.

05、后面才是开房***买礼物。这些顺序倒是可乱，因为人的工作性质性格，爱好不一样。但以上是基本条件。

The next step is to open a house and spend money to buy gifts. These orders can be messy because people have different job natures, personalities, and hobbies. But the above are the basic conditions.

06、男孩切记，不要用亲密关系来换取爱情，按照程序来这个顺序是筛选，筛选出女孩可以真诚付出的对象。很多男的前期其实是能看得出来的。早发现早止损

Boys should remember not to exchange intimate relationships for love. According to the procedure, this order is to screen out objects that girls can sincerely give to. Many men can actually see it in the early stages. Early detection and stop loss

07、不会用所谓“细节”来绑架我，我包容你偶尔的小脾气小偏执，没有人生来就懂如何去爱一个人，但我们终其一生都在学习如何去爱一个人，真心换真心真诚才是必杀技。

I won&39、;t use so-called &39、;details&39、; to kidnap me. I tolerate your occasional temper and paranoia. No one is born knowing how to love someone, but we spend our whole lives learning how to love someone. Sincerity for sincerity is the ultimate skill.

08、还继续纠缠的就是饮鸠止渴！我一直很不喜欢的一甸话：“有心者不用教，无心者教不会”每个男生爱人的方式都是不一样的，爱情不是一个人对另一个人的考核，而是双向的付出和成长。谁都不是对方肚子里的蛔虫

What continues to entangle is drinking Jiu to quench thirst! A saying I have always disliked: &39、;Those who have the heart don&39、;t need to be taught, and those who don&39、;t have the heart can&39、;t be taught.&39、; Every boy&39、;s way of loving others is different. Love is not an assessment of one person towards another, but a two-way effort and growth. No one is a worm in the other person&39、;s stomach

09、两个从小到大成长经历完全不同的人走在一起，哪来的天降奇兵百分百的懂你呢？所以在爱情里最好的双向奔赴，其实就是我有耐心你有真心，我从不怀疑你爱我的真诚，你也从不客啬你对我的付出和偏爱。你体谅我的笨拙迟钝

Two people with completely different growth experiences from childhood to adulthood walking together, where did the Skyfall Raiders 100% understand you? So the best two-way journey in love is actually when I have patience and you have sincerity. I never doubt your sincerity in loving me, and you never ask for your dedication and favoritism towards me. You understand my clumsiness and sluggishness