01、周末/下班的时候，你常常干什么呀?

人往往会在闲的时候，干一些自己真正感兴趣的事情，如果恰好两个人有相同的爱好，就可以约着一起玩，拉近彼此之间的距离，同时可以有效检测对方自律还是懒散。

People often do things they are truly interested in during their free time. If two people happen to have the same hobbies, they can make plans to play together, bring each other closer, and effectively detect each other&39、;s self-discipline or laziness.

02、你有没有想要实现的梦想？

任何对事业上勤奋努力，对人生有梦想有追求的人，一旦谈到梦想都会神采飞扬。

你可以在聊天中再去寻找对方感兴趣的地方，深入挖掘下去。

同时可以有效检测对方是不是一个上进的人。

Anyone who is diligent and hardworking in their career, and has dreams and pursuits in life, will shine brightly once they talk about their dreams. You can search for places that the other person is interested in during the chat and dig deeper. At the same time, it can effectively detect whether the other party is an ambitious person.

03、你最近有没有听说某新闻？

什么样的人会关注什么样的信息。想挣钱的人会关注财经，八卦的人关注娱乐圈，自闭的人不看新闻。

聆听对方的观点，能够了解对方的人品对事情的态度。

What kind of people will pay attention to what kind of information. People who want to make money tend to pay attention to finance, gossip people tend to pay attention to the entertainment industry, and autistic people don&39、;t watch news. Listening to the other person&39、;s perspective can help understand their character and attitude towards things.

04、你有什么特别喜欢吃的菜吗？

人人都是美食家，聊美食是人人都能回答上来的话题，但每个人可能会有不同的口味，如果以后住在一起口味不同，生活上会有诸多不便。

聊美食可以知道对方是否会做饭，有没有做饭的习惯，你也可以展示自己会做饭。

Everyone is a foodie, and talking about food is a topic that everyone can answer, but everyone may have different tastes. If we live together in the future and have different tastes, there will be many inconveniences in our daily lives. Chatting about food can help you know if the other person knows how to cook, if they have cooking habits, and you can also demonstrate that you know how to cook.

05、你旅行都去过哪些地方?

每个人都喜欢聊自己值得骄傲自豪的地方，去过哪些地方旅行往往就是一个人自豪的地方，往往会让人表达得停不下来。

通过去哪里旅行，喜欢怎样旅行，旅行是否会仔细安排行程，这些话题可以了解对方的规划能力，对事物的把控能力。

Everyone likes to talk about the places they are proud of, and traveling to those places is often the pride of a person, which often makes people unable to stop expressing themselves. By discussing topics such as where to travel, how to travel, and whether the itinerary is carefully planned, one can gain insights into the other party&39、;s planning and control over things.

06、你有喜欢/养什么宠物吗?

几乎所有人都喜欢宠物，看对方养什么样的宠物就可以知道对方是一个什么样的人。

如果正好喜欢相同的宠物类型，可以分享自己关注的宠物内容，提升彼此之间的关系。

如果对方养宠物，关注对方对待宠物的方式，可以一定程度了解对方未来是不是能够带好孩子

Almost everyone loves pets, and you can tell what kind of person the other person is by looking at what kind of pets they have. If you happen to like the same type of pet, you can share the pet content you follow to enhance your relationship with each other. If the other party keeps a pet, paying attention to their way of treating pets can help to understand to some extent whether they will be able to take care of their children well in the future

07、你是什么星座?

星座可以有效去了解对方的个性，同时也可以知道对方的生日，两个人可以聊聊彼此星座中的刻板印象以及相互之间的匹配度。

如果你问对方是什么星座，对方回答你不信星座，那么可以认为对方对你现在没有兴趣。

因为如果对方不知道，大可以为了你查一下，但这都懒得查，只能说明他对你并不感兴趣。

Zodiac signs can effectively help understand each other&39、;s personalities, as well as their birthdays. Two people can talk about stereotypes in each other&39、;s zodiac signs and their compatibility with each other. If you ask the other person what their zodiac sign is and they answer that you don&39、;t believe in their zodiac sign, it can be assumed that they are not interested in you at the moment. Because if the other party doesn&39、;t know, they can easily check for you, but they are too lazy to do so, which only shows that they are not interested in you.

08、独处的时候，你一般在做什么呀?

独处就像灵魂打烊了，在为自己排毒疗愈。

如果一个人独处的时候，总是在打游戏、看电视将时间浪费掉，说明这个人没有对未来的规划能力。

如果一个人不善于独处，总是在寻找喧嚣，说明这个人灵魂很空虚，需要不断从外界汲取力量。独处可以看出一个人的高级程度。

Being alone is like closing the soul, detoxifying and healing oneself.

If a person always wastes time playing games or watching TV when alone, it indicates that they lack the ability to plan for the future.

If a person is not good at being alone and always seeks noise, it means that their soul is empty and they need to constantly draw strength from the outside world. Being alone can reveal a person&39、;s level of sophistication.