1、人皆有私心，毕竟没有谁甘愿委屈自己，去一味忍让他人。所有的让步，皆源于在乎；所有的包容，皆因看重。

Everyone has self - interest. After all, no one is willing to wrong themselves and keep tolerating others all the time. All concessions stem from caring, and all tolerance is due to attaching importance.

2、谁不曾是心地善良的孩子，却在现实的磋磨下，变成了心机深重的“疯子”。从此以后，你的世界与我再无瓜葛，我的世界，你也仅能旁观。

Who wasn't a kind - hearted child? But under the grinding of reality, they became scheming "madmen". From now on, your world has nothing to do with mine, and in my world, you can only be a bystander.

3、真正懂爱的人，宁可扮演输家，也不愿辜负自己所爱的人。因为爱，就意味着要懂得让步。

Those who truly understand love would rather play the role of a loser than let down the person they love. Because love means knowing how to make concessions.

4、未曾经历爱情的人生，是残缺不全的；未曾经历痛苦的爱，是不够深刻的。爱情，让人生变得丰富多彩；痛苦，则使爱情得以升华。

A life without experiencing love is incomplete; a love without experiencing pain is not profound enough. Love enriches life, and pain sublimates love.

5、自己喜欢的事物，就无需询问他人好不好。即便别人说喜欢，你若不愿让步，那自己喜欢便好，开心才是最重要的。

For things you like, there's no need to ask others if they're good. Even if others say they like them, if you're not willing to give in, as long as you like them, that's fine. Being happy is the most important thing.

6、要坚信，世间美好的事物总要多于阴暗，欢乐总要多于苦难，还有诸多事，值得你一如既往地相信。

Believe that there are always more beautiful things than darkness in the world, more joy than suffering, and there are still many things that are worth believing in as always.

7、眼里没有你的人，你又何必将其放在心上；情里没有你位置的人，你何苦一往情深。但同时要铭记，永远不要因为一时的新鲜感，就抛弃愿意陪伴你的人。

Why should you care about someone who doesn't have you in their eyes? Why should you be deeply in love with someone who doesn't have a place for you in their feelings? But remember, never abandon those who are willing to accompany you just because of momentary freshness.

8、快乐，并非取决于拥有的多少，而是在于计较的多寡。人要认清自己，有时候，困住自己的并非某个难关，而是心中的执念。

Happiness doesn't depend on how much you have, but on how little you care. People should recognize themselves. Sometimes, what traps you is not a certain difficulty, but the obsession in your heart.