1、其实结不结婚，都会后悔。巷子里的猫很自由，却没有归宿。围墙里的狗有归宿，却终身都要低头。人生这道选择题，怎么选都会有遗憾。但请你记住，无论怎么选：谋爱前先谋生，爱人前先爱己。一个人没有经济能力，才是万劫不复。

In fact, whether you get married or not, you may end up with regrets. The cat in the alley is free but has no home. The dog in the compound has a home but has to submit all its life. Life is like this multiple - choice question, and there will be regrets no matter which option you choose. But remember, no matter what you choose: make a living before seeking love, and love yourself before loving others. A person without financial ability is doomed.

2、我告诉你我喜欢你，并不是一定要和你在一起，只是希望今后的你，在遭遇人生低谷的时候，不要灰心。至少曾经有人被你的魅力所吸引，曾经是，以后也会是。

I tell you that I like you not necessarily because I want to be with you. I just hope that in the future, when you're at a low point in life, you won't lose heart. At least someone was once attracted by your charm, and it was true in the past and will be true in the future.

3、如果有一天，你不再寻找爱情，只是去爱；不再渴望成功，只是去做；你不再追求空泛的成长，只是开始修养自己的性情；你的人生，才真正开始。

If one day, you no longer look for love, but just love; no longer yearn for success, but just do; no longer pursue empty growth, but start to cultivate your temperament; then your life really begins.

4、照顾好自己，爱自己才能爱好别人。如果你压抑，痛苦，忧伤，不自由，又怎么可能在心里腾出温暖的房间，让重要的人住在里面。如果一颗心千疮百孔，住在里面的人就会被雨水打湿。

Take good care of yourself. Loving yourself is the prerequisite for loving others. If you're depressed, in pain, sad, and not free, how can you possibly spare a warm corner in your heart for important people to live in? If a heart is full of holes, the people living in it will get wet by the rain.

5、很多人问，是该选爱自己的人还是自己爱的人？其实很简单。你强大，你就选自己爱的人，你不够强大，那就选爱自己的人了。

Many people ask whether they should choose someone who loves them or someone they love. In fact, it's simple. If you're strong, choose the one you love. If you're not strong enough, then choose the one who loves you.

6、不管你对多少异性失望，你都没有理由对爱情失望。因为爱情本身就是希望，永远是生命的一种希望。爱情是你自己的品质，是你自己的心魂，是你自己的处境，与别人无关。

No matter how disappointed you are with many opposite - sex people, you have no reason to be disappointed with love. Because love itself is hope, always a hope in life. Love is your own quality, your own soul, your own situation, and has nothing to do with others.