❤️1、当我情绪稳定的那一刻，证明我已经想好了一件事，也已经失望透顶了，勉勉强强的东西显得特别没意思，拿把破伞遮雨还不如淋雨。

The moment my emotions stabilize, it means I've made up my mind about something and am completely disappointed. Something forced just seems really meaningless. Using a broken umbrella to shelter from the rain is not as good as just getting wet in the rain.

❤️2、主动是因为在乎，不联系是觉得自己多余。缓一缓吧，缓到不想要了，就释怀了。不是你不重要了，而是我决定放过自己了。

I take the initiative because I care. I stop contacting you because I feel like I'm redundant. Let's take a break. When I no longer want it, I'll let it go. It's not that you're not important anymore, but I've decided to let myself off the hook.

❤️3、我并不善变，只是我的热情也终归有限，不是我不勇敢了，而是那种真心对待、坦诚过后，又被丢下的感觉太糟糕了。

I'm not fickle. It's just that my enthusiasm has its limits. It's not that I'm no longer brave, but the feeling of being left behind after treating someone sincerely and being open is just too awful.

❤️4、脾气随人而定，你是什么货色，我就是什么态度。其实谁也不傻， 真心，敷衍，心如明镜。

My temper depends on the person. I'll treat you according to who you are. In fact, no one is stupid. Everyone can clearly tell whether it's sincere or perfunctory.

❤️5、现在才懂得一地鸡毛才是生活的本质，起初，我是揣着糊涂装明白，后来，我是揣着明白装糊涂。

Only now do I understand that a messy life is the essence of life. At first, I pretended to understand while actually being confused. Later, I pretended to be confused while actually understanding.

❤️6、你若变了，那我就淡了，你若淡了，那我就算了，太过在意反而适得其反，我不想以爱之名绑架任何人，我想要的是，你愿意，我值得。

If you change, then I'll become distant. If you become distant, then I'll let it go. Caring too much will backfire. I don't want to kidnap anyone in the name of love. What I want is that you're willing and I'm worthy.

❤️7、人会因为嘴硬而失去很多东西，也会因为心软而受很多委屈。原来以为不回消息的人很不礼貌, 后来才知道不礼貌的是那个一直发消息的人。带着真诚和勇敢而来, 该遗憾的人不应该是我。

People may lose a lot because of being stubborn, and they may also suffer a lot of grievances because of being soft-hearted. I used to think that those who don't reply to messages are impolite. Later, I realized that the impolite one is the person who keeps sending messages. I come with sincerity and courage. The one who should feel regretful shouldn't be me.