1、爱理应使人变得温柔且勇敢，而非让人时常陷入委屈或无奈妥协的境地。

Love should make people gentle and brave, rather than constantly leaving them in a situation of grievance or helpless compromise.

2、倘若你斤斤计较，鸡毛蒜皮之事也足以令你受伤；倘若你释怀洒脱，风风雨雨亦无所畏惧。人生，是认真与看淡的交织，是执着与勇敢的融合。凡事尽心尽力，而后便顺其自然。

If you haggle over every ounce, trifles can hurt you; if you let go and are free - spirited, you'll fear neither wind nor rain. Life is a combination of being earnest and being indifferent, a blend of perseverance and courage. Do everything to the best of your ability, and then let nature take its course.

3、最令人难过的，并非结局不尽人意，而是付出的一片真诚从未得到过善待。

What's most distressing is not that the ending is unsatisfactory, but that the sincere efforts you've made have never been treated well.

4、情绪总是反复无常，既找不到宣泄的出口，也没有可退之路。道理我皆明白，然而焦虑却难以自控。

Emotions are always capricious. There's neither an outlet for venting nor a way back. I understand all the reasons, but I can't control my anxiety.

5、生活本就如此，总会充斥着诸多力不从心、诸多事与愿违和疲惫不堪的时刻。

Life is like this. There are always many moments of being unable to do what one wants, many disappointments, and exhaustion.

6、话少之人未必愚钝，嘴甜之人未必善良。一个人的真心并非体现在嘴上，而是深藏于心中。有些人能言善辩，却未必真心待人；有些人不善言辞，办事却实实在在。

People who talk little may not be dull, and those with honey - coated tongues may not be kind. A person's sincerity is not shown in words but hidden in the heart. Some people are eloquent but may not treat others sincerely; some are inarticulate but do things in a down - to - earth manner.

7、有时候，不经意间知晓了一些事，忽然发觉自己一直在乎的那些人和事竟变得如此荒诞可笑，这才意识到自己一直以来就像个傻子。Sometimes, when you inadvertently learn something, you suddenly find that the people and things you've always cared about are so absurd and ridiculous, and then you realize that you've been like a fool all along.

8、人生走走停停，已然走过半生。在这过程中，读懂了人生，看透了生活，见证了人心，也验证了人性。一直以来都在担忧会失去谁，却唯独忘了问问自己，究竟谁会害怕失去我。

Life is a journey of stops and starts, and half of my life has passed. In this process, I've understood life, seen through daily existence, witnessed people's hearts, and verified human nature. I've always been worried about who I might lose, but I've only forgotten to ask myself who would be afraid of losing me.

9、生活磨灭了我千变万化的模样，我却给自己遗留下多愁善感的性格。

Life has worn away my ever - changing appearance, but I've left myself with a sentimental character.

10、伤口不在别人身上，他们自然无法体会疼痛。别指望能有所谓的感同身受，唯有自己冷暖自知。

Since the wound is not on others, they naturally can't feel the pain. Don't expect so - called empathy. Only you know your own joys and sorrows.

11、即便是大大咧咧的人，也会有感到难过的时候。就好比下了一场倾盆大雨，别人都在安然等伞，而我却只能在雨中匆忙奔跑。

Even carefree people will feel sad sometimes. It's like when there's a downpour. Others are calmly waiting for an umbrella, while I can only run in the rain in a hurry.